Thoughts on consent and BDSM

So… I know I’m beating a dead horse and everything, but I have thoughts.

Consent is important, no matter what lifestyle you lead. If you don’t get consent, don’t do a thing. If you have to coerce your partner into doing something, guess what? They’re not consenting!!!! They’re just agreeing with you. Consent isn’t “maybe”, “I don’t know” or “mmm. I guess so.” It’s “yes.” An enthusiastic “yes.”

It amazes me that there are people in the world who don’t get it. It’s really sad. Even the vanilla people don’t get it. So yes, I agree that vanilla people can learn something from us kinky fuckers.

Luna out. 😘

New year. New me???

A new year is upon us. A new decade will be approaching before we know it. I’m excited to see what this year and decade holds. I don’t, however, say that annoying phrase “New year. New me” because I think it’s crap. I also don’t make resolutions because they’re pointless, too. Why wait till the new year to make a new start? It’s silly, honestly.

So there’s another peek into my thoughts.

I hope everyone has a happy holiday, and please do be safe.

Luna out. 😘

Updates and such

For those who might wanna know, I have some news. My knee surgery, so far at least, is a success!!! Physical therapy is going well, and I’m able to bend it. It does this pulling thing every so often but that’s normal. It doesn’t stop me from freaking out, though. I was told my surgery may not work but I’m so glad it did!!!!

In other news, I had a heart a ultrasound done and everything is fine but they want me to wear a heart monitor for 2 days. By the time you read this I’ll have already returned it to the hospital. Thankfully it’s just a little tiny thing I can put in my pocket or clip it onto my pants.

I really hope things go well and that I’ll be ok.

I’ll let y’all know what happens.

Luna out. 😘

What does submission feel like?

I was inspired to answer this question when I saw another blog post about submission being a feeling. This is gonna be the cheesiest post ever from me, but here goes.

Submission is like all things good in the world: Your first cup of coffee in the morning, the sun on your face after a cold Winter, listening to your favorite song… you get the idea. I also feel confident in myself when I’m submitting. I feel at my most beautiful. I, of course, feel at my most vulnerable and I wouldn’t change that for the world, because vulnerability isn’t a weakness. It’s a strength.

These were my thoughts at 5:00 this morning.

Sure, it’s not rainbows and unicorns all the time, but even at its worst, it’s still a beautiful feeling to me.

Sometimes you just gotta laugh

Sometimes you just gotta laugh about the things that make you anxious. I do. The other day I had a late-night convo with a SOS and I kid you not, every noise made me jump. I get anxious about silly things like that. I gwt anxious over confrontation and yelling. But sometimes, you still gotta laugh after the fact. It may not be fun at the time to experience it, but it’s true what they say: Laughter is the best medicine.

Those are my Monday musings. This post will be coming on Tuesday but it was Monday when I wrote it.

Luna out. 😘

Nude by Rihanna perfume review

Because there’s everything over on this site, have a review.

Nude by Rihanna is her 3 fragrance. I think it was released in 2013 but I can’t remember. I do remember having to travel to PA to get it because the dummies in my state didn’t have it like the online store said they did.

So, yeah. Let’s get to it.

Nude comes in a tan bottle. It supposedly looks like a stelletto shoe when turned upside down. Some people don’t see that but I can. It has 2 golden bands on the lid, and the sprayer is golden too I think.

I can’t remember all the stuff in it but I know there’s: •Pear, sandalwood, guavaa. •Vanilla and peppercorn. I think orange blossom might be in there somewhere but who knows? It’s a little fruity and sweet, at least on me. It reminds me of summer and not caring about anything. I really don’t have anything negative to say here, except I sometimes wish she’d make another like this one.

Sorry this was a bit crap, but I like doing this from time to time.

I hope y’all enjoyed it.

Luna out. 😘

Are we less kinky because we are less hard-core?

Every so often, I see a post asking what is kinky and what is considered vanilla? Oh well I don’t really have answers to that question, but here’s another way to look at it. It’s someone less kinky because they might like a little less hard-core stuff? Is someone less kinky because they like what most people call the Fifty Shades of Grey version of kink? I don’t think so. I think everybody has their own version of kinky, and they shouldn’t be made to feel less them because they don’t like needles and blood. That’s not much to ask I hope.

To me, it kinda feels like an inadvertent judgment of me because I’m a mild kinky human. I like the FSOG version of kink. I don’t see that changing any time soon, but who knows? Submission changes all the time.

Moral of the story: To each their own. Let people do what they do. Don’t judge them for it. If the people are consenting and know what they’re consenting to, let it go.

Luna out. 😘